Mix Six: “Graduation Day”

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This is the time of the year when graduates go through the ritual where they transition from one stage of life to another. It’s certainly an emotional time for all involved, and it does mark endings and beginnings. I don’t know about you, but when I graduated from high school, it was really strange to think that I was finished; that I wasn’t coming back in the fall. But I got over it, and quickly moved on. When I finished college, I was just excited to finally complete a degree that took far-too-long to get. I was ready to start my “adult life” and enter the world of careers, maybe marriage, kids, mortgages, and all that grown-up stuff. But what did I do? Um, I dove right back into school after a year of working at some crappy jobs. Ah, I guess I wasn’t quite ready to leave the womb. But enough about me. Here’s to you! The class of 2008. Go forth and kick some ass.


“I’m Coming Out,”
Diana Ross

It seems this song has become a huge graduation song among “the kids.” I’m surprised it’s survived this long, but I suppose it’s a classic — even if it’s a classic performed by a really, really, really, really, bad person.


“Graduation Day (Friends Forever),” Vitamin C

Boy, if there was ever a list of “occasion” songs savvy producers put together to keep record sales strong once a year, this would top the list. I mean you can’t get a more blatant graduation song with a title like that!


“It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye To Yesterday,”
Boyz II Men

It seems the Boyz have the market cornered on ballads that require you to dance with all of your friends at the end of dance. Okay, everybody get in middle of the dance floor for the big group hug dance. No? Okay, I’ll see you at IHOP, then.


“Closing Time,”Semisonic

Here’s one that initially stumped me on the whole graduation theme. But the closer I listen to the lyrics, the more it seems to fit quite nicely: Closing time/Time for you to go out, go out into the world Closing time/ Turn the lights up over every boy and every girl/Closing time/One last call for alcohol, so finish your whiskey or beer/Closing time/You don’t have to go home but you can’t stay here. I believe that last line was uttered by my high school vice principal after our grad night party.


“Graduation Day,”
Kanye West

Just the right amount of sass for a grad night, and it seems Kanye is a fan of Vitamin C. Or maybe he’s savvy enough to know money-maker title like “Graduation Day” when he scribbles it in his notebook. A word of advice: you probably don’t want to blast this one while your grandma is handing you a check for $250, kissing you on the cheek, and telling you how proud she is of you. Save it for the party with your friends.


“Today,”
Smashing Pumpkins

Another song that I never thought was a graduation song. I mean, just read the first paragraph of the Wiki entry. I suppose people are just fixating on the opening lyric (i.e., Today is the greatest…day I’ve every known.“), and then completely ignore the rest of the song. Hmm…perhaps it can be argued that there’s a death metaphor in the rite of passage of a graduation. But you know what? I’m not going to bother making that argument.

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  • magnolia7281
    heh - when i graduated from high school, ten years ago this may (!!!), i favored "angels of the silences" by counting crows. not so much for the entire song, mind you, but for the end:

    "i'm gone, i'm gone, i'm gone, i leave today
    i'm gone, i'm gone, i'm gone, take me away"

    you get the idea. not that high school sucked for me or anything; i was just ready to get the hell out of alabama. :)
  • Ted
    I had the honor of going to three different high schools, so when it came time to graduate, I really didn't get misty-eyed. Like you, I was ready to move on.
  • So the Foo Fighters "I'm done, I'm done, On to the next one..." would have been more appropriate?
  • Ted
    If there's a song called "Don't Kick My Ass (Because I'm the New Kid At School)," then I think we'd have a winner!
  • There's talk in Phys Ed, it sounds so familiar
    Called Xenophobia, everybody's scared of you
    People you meet, they all wanna hurt you
    They're all up in arms just because you're someone new

    Py Korry Come Lately
    The new kid in town
    Hold your breath in the swirly
    Or else you might drowwwwwwnnnn....

    (From one who's ass was kicked many, many times!)
  • "Closing time": songwriter Dan Wilson has said he wrote this about the birth of his child in a deliberately abstract way.
  • Heh heh. That's kinda cute.
  • Ted
    Now I gotta run back a re-read the lyrics to spot to fatherhood references -- if there are any.
  • Eeeew. Listen to the song again with the ObGyn staring down the empty baby chute.
  • Ted
    I know this is a hypothetical/thought experiment, but TMI! TMI!
  • But obstetrics is AWESOME!
  • Kittie
    Graduation day was played up like the most important day of my life. I think they were trying to scare me, or play some kind of practical joke (guess what comes next! At least four tedious years of college, or McDonald's!), or attempt to instill guilt in me for not feeling at all nostalgic about high school.
    Good God, high school. I have the suspicion most people with the gall to be nostalgic about high school is either delusional or a grown-up bully.
  • Ted
    I wasn't one of 'em, but I think for the popular kids, high school was a high point of their lives. For me, it was the last 2 years of college. When it came time to graduate, I had some feelings of loss -- mostly for the experiences I had with friends.
  • Kittie
    Four years of that... I still can't construct sentences.
  • Kittie
    Here's one - "Pulling the Plug on the Party" by Electric 6.
  • Malchus
    The first song in your mix also seems appropriate coming on the same day gay couples are legally allowed to wed in California.
  • Ted
    Some friends of mine got married in San Francisco in 2004 when they first started doing same gender weddings at city hall. But knowing them, they probably would have chosen something to make everyone chuckle -- like "Hell" by Squirrel Nut Zippers
  • You forgot Here's to the Night by Eve 6.
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