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If you are a woman, the relationship you have with your best girlfriends is special. It’s different than any you have with your parents, siblings, romantic partners or even other friends. Your best girlfriend almost always knows you better than anyone else. You trust her with your secrets and you know that she is someone you can turn to no matter what. She’s someone who will listen to your problems and be honest with you, even it if it hurts.

A best girlfriend will be there to console you when you get dumped at 1 A.M. by that asshole you’ve been sleeping with who’s been stringing you along for months. And even though she insisted you could do better and you should stop seeing him a long time ago, but you didn’t listen to her, she’ll take you to an all-night diner and buy you pancakes and coffee and let you cry and bitch and moan without judging you or telling you she told you so.

A true best friend will go shopping with you and tell you when a dress you’ve chosen is totally fug and will help you pick out clothes that hide your fat rolls and make your boobs and ass look amazing. She will talk you out of buying those boots you love that cost almost as much as your rent because she knows you can’t afford them and she doesn’t want you selling any of your other possessions to make ends meet — or asking her for money that she doesn’t have but wouldn’t refuse you.

A BFF will gladly judge horrible skanks that your ex is now sleeping with, but will stop you from making an ass out of yourself when you drunkenly decide to approach the bitch and tell her what you think of her. She won’t judge you when you show up to brunch with greasy bangs and mascara smudged under your eyes, wearing the same clothes you had on the night before.

She will talk to you on the phone for hours about nothing in particular, but won’t be offended if you don’t call her for two weeks. She will organize your wedding and/or baby shower, even if she hates weddings and babies. She will throw you a surprise party when you think everyone has forgotten your birthday. And if something unfortunate happens, like a death in the family or a bout of depression, she will be there with a fresh box of tissues, your favorite ice cream and many, many hugs.

She will tell you when you’re being a bitch and will expect you to do the same for her. And she will always remind you that, no matter what happens,  you’re awesome and fuck anyone who doesn’t think so.

Wow. That all sounded like one of those awful “In honor of women” forwards your crazy aunt who barely knows how to use her Hotmail account sends you every other week, doesn’t it? Well, whatever. I love my friends and I’m lucky to have such fierce ladies in my life.

Inspired by a recent viewing of one of my favorite films, Walking and Talking, and the success of the hit female buddy comedy Bridesmaids (which I still haven’t seen because I’m terrible), I thought I’d revisit some of my favorite female BFFs in film. Whether they’re laughing, crying, talking about sex or plotting murder, these ladies all share a strong bond that (for the most part) can’t be broken. And that’s why I love them.

My list was originally a lot longer than this, but then I noticed that several of the ladies I had listed were BFFs who happened to also be co-workers, so I decided they’d become their own Filminism post later on.

Who are your favorite female friendships in film? Tell me in the comments!

Warning: some of the clips below might be a little spoilery.

HBO’s polygamist drama is back for its fifth and final season. After a particularly rough season four, which featured outlandish plots, and was even publicly criticized by one of the stars, the show is getting back to its roots in family. Everything has changed for the Henricksons now that Bill (Bill Paxton) has been elected a State Senator, and promptly outed himself as a polygamist. Now, the family is facing harsh judgment from all sides.

Margene (Ginnifer Goodwin) has lost her job as a jewelry TV saleswoman because of her public scandal and loss of credibility, and is mourning the loss of the only thing that she felt gave her purpose. Nicki (Chloe Sevigny) makes some questionable choices when she corners and bullies a little kid in response to the kid writing hateful words on her son, ultimately resulting in him chipping his tooth. Barb (Jeanne Tripplehorn) is struggling with the changing dynamic in the family, thinking she doesn’t need her sisterwives anymore, and is tempted to start drinking.

Bill’s life is falling apart more than he would like to admit. Home Plus employees and his campaign volunteers are dropping like flies after his revelation. The few that have stuck around are disappointed, and poking fun at his religion and lifestyle choices. Bill and Don (Joel McKinnon Miller) are in a power struggle after Don feels used by Bill for taking the fall for the polygamist accusations last season, and the issues are carrying over into the workplace where Don wants to have more of a voice.

When the Senator who had supported Bill gets a DUI and promptly resigns, he suddenly has no one on his side, and is being pressured to leave as well. At a town hall meeting, Bill is spit on, to illustrate how his constituents felt after the truth came out. In one last ditch attempt at gathering some support, Bill hosts an open house. But no one comes, until very late in the evening when a few fellow polygamists show up at his doorstep in solidarity.