Liz Phair is 37. I am 36.
From 1986 to around 1988, Liz Phair and I lived a mere 10 miles away from each other (she at Oberlin College, me in Elyria, Ohio).
In 2004, Liz Phair and I live a mere 10 miles away from each other (she in Manhattan Beach, me in Long Beach).
We both have written about “Hot White Cum”.
We have never met.